Type of Guys to Avoid!!!

Truth be told not all guys are worth Talking to let alone Dating. Broken promises, pretending to be what they are not. Lying, Cheating and the List goes on and on and on. There are good ones out there I know yea..

Its really hard to tell from some ones face what lies beneath their smile and all that..

So that's why I, the Relationship Doctor have put together a List of things you should spot in a guy to let you know if its a KEEP or a TRASH.. Ladies be Wise with your choices...

#1: He Brags a lot
Like seriously no one cares how many cars u have or where you last went on holidays and how many times u travel out. Like Seriously give me a break. You can tell me all these and still be the stingiest thing ever so what's the point?? Let the gifts do the talking and just give my ear drums a break.

#2: He is Stingy and doesn't pay attention to Your needs
Honestly if his going to act like he didn't hear when you just said you needed to go shopping or get a new hair do etc. then seriously what's the point. If he cant do the simplest of things to show he cares then truth is, it will only get worse when you eventually marry him. Are u ready to take that risk???Its totally up to you but for me ....NOPE...

#3: He has an MO (Mouth Odour)
That is by far the worst thing ever. It kills faster than Cancer. You can't do anything with the dude because honestly his taking your breathe away because you can't stand close to him. I think its a big turn off anytime and its not even an option.

#4: He has a BO (Body Odour)
Again Guys what are you thinking. If you cant keep personal hygiene and you smell this bad when your dressed. I don't even want to start thinking what's going to happen when your undressed cos I'll probably be in Coma with the stench. If I'm forced to hold my breathe while your 1meter away from me, then I'm sorry its NEVER going to work. I'm a clean freak so I will pass on this one.

#5:  He is Arrogant and feels his the best thing that happened to the World
If his going to be arrogant and showy and bossy when your just starting, I bet you his one of them guys that get married and keep reminding their wives how lucky they are to have being married to a "KING" like him. That is the deal breaker for me.Its humility all the way. It doesn't matter what you have if you cant be humble then I think its better you forget about dating and start sleeping with all your cars and houses etc.

#6: He Puts a Lock on his Phone
I'm not going to stalk your phone but if your too uptight and can't trust yourself enough to leave your phone, then your making the alarm bells to ring. It only shows you have a lot of things your hiding. Unless you guys don't plan to take each other serious but if you are, then I'll be very concerned. There has to be a level of trust and you set the pace. If your not ready to settle down then keep being a bachelor and you can even put a padlock on it and be rest assured I know where your place is..as in you almost don't exist".

#7: He is too Hot tempered and very Hardened
If he snaps at anything you say. Shouts and disrespects you everywhere, in front of his friends, outside, indoors. Calls you all sorts of names and insults both you and your family, This is the RED FLAG. Girl seriously run as fast as your legs can carry you. He is a bonifide serial Woman Beater. Do not make excuses for any of his behaviors. If he can be this way when his not married to you, then imagine what will become of you when he now pays your bride price. Do the sum and give me the answer. I'll leave this one for anyone to conclude.

#8: He never forgives easily and never forgets
He constantly reminds you of what you did several months back. He tries to bring you down whenever he gets a chance. He is so strong minded that you have to beg for weeks before he can forgive while knowing he wont ever forget. Then what's the point?? I haven't got that energy to run around begging like I broke the book of life. Its not worth my time so I'll say dump him first and walk before he dumps u.

#9  He is extremely Jealous
If he doesn't trust you at all and constantly accuses you of cheating with everyone. He snaps when you don't pick calls regardless of the reason. He doesn't let you hang out with your friends. He suspects your every move. While I know some ladies enjoy these, I think its an indirect form of stalking. If he cant give you your space and thinks your that cheap to sleep with anything then Its either he changes that mentality of his or your out the door for good because these things get worse after marriage. I haven't being married before but don't ask me how I know...lol


#10: He doesn't surprise you or Spoil You
Every girl loves to be spoilt every now and then. It could be flowers, chocolate, trips, vacations, shopping, monetary ,whatever but you have to spoil. Its not easy to just be with one man so the guy has got to be worth it and constantly pamper you. You can also do little things like breakfast in bed, cook a nice dinner, give a nice massage, take her out for dinner. Every little helps but you have to have your game on. Stay away from any guy who doesn't believe he has to spoil or pamper you. Its worth getting a new SIM CARD...

Lastly if his not CARING, then its going to be hard for him to understand your feelings and know when to step in. If he feels your a man like him and you should be tough and not have emotions and needs then I think that's the time to say your Goodbye.

While what works for someone else doesn't work for everyone but one thing is for sure that Men will always be men. You gotta get it right the first time if you really want to mean your "For better for worse". I hope you choose wisely and know exactly when the red flags are starring you at the face.

Do not ever believe that you can ever change a man because if he was that way before you met him, unless its by the grace of God and Counselling that dude hasn't got a Remix of him. So lets Stop Domestic Violence and Abuse to our women.
And Ladies Do not settle for any man who wont treat you like the Princess that you are or be a substitute. Know your worth and remember you were bought with a Price because God said so.