Saturday, 25 May 2013

What is the Right and Ideal Age to get Married!!




There comes a certain time in life when most young women and men become concerned and worried about if its the ideal time to get married. Sometimes societal pressure often make young women especially to feel like if they ain't married before a certain age, they are now old and less likely to find a suitor.

So this bring me to my topic today which is the question of WHAT is the Right Age??? But instead of asking yourself what the best age to get married is, ask yourself these questions
The average age to marry is unique to each person and also significantly different across the world.
But what is the right age to get married? And how can you ever tell if you’re too young to marry? is it ok to marry at any time as long as you both are in love and have decided that your now ready? Does it matter what age you get married at?

Below are some questions that you should ask yourself before you take that Leap...

#1: Are you really ready for marriage?

# 2: Do you have the financial stability?

#3: Are you  both emotionally mature?

#4: Are you ready to compromise in the relationship?

#5: Can you handle each others shortcomings

#6: Can you be ready to Tolerate and be patient in all situations
 
#7: Can you handle each other’s likes and dislikes

#8. Can you accommodate each others external family members

#9. Are you madly In love with each other

#10. Are you ready to give up your single lives and lifestyle

#11. Are you ready to be fully committed, loyal  and submissive to yourselves
So what’s the right age to get married now???

I believe it is a personal decision and until you are mentally stable and ready to handle all the issues that surround marriage I don't think anyone should make that decision for you. Reflect on these questions before you take the plunge and remember  to be always cautious. Take your time to decide, and give it enough thought. It’s easy to take a plunge because of pressure but the question is are you going to like the pleasant sensation or will it be a shocking and icy chill? Remember a wedding ring is the smallest handcuff ever made so choose your cell mate wisely.

I hope these questions can help you in your decision making. Remember to invite me when your getting hitched.

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