A lot of Relationships Start to Loose their Sparks after either when a BABY arrives, when your MARRIED, when you've MOVED IN together or COURTED for so long..etc. But whatever the reason could be, there is virtually no reason why that should happen.
I will share with you TWENTY (20) tips on How to put the SPARK back into Your Love life... I will be putting up a video of these Tips where I explained all in details.
Tip 1: Women you need to Loosen up
Most women are so uptight with themselves that they forget how to relax, have fun and guff around. You have to learn to be playful, lively, joke with him. Learn to create times when u both can just relax, laugh and play love games with each other. Do silly things together like truth and dare with things u want him/her to do to you. Go to the movies together. Tell stories and just try not to take life too seriously because Love is a beautiful thing and should be enjoyed.
Tip 2: Be Shockingly inventive and creative both on yourself and in the Bedroom
You have to learn new ways of doing things. Instead of just lying in bed and waiting for him to come to you, you can spice things up by setting the mood. Light candles in the bedroom, put on a soft music, Put beautiful SEXY bed sheets.. YES u heard me right sexy bed sheet and spread petals on them. Dress sexy to bed and get rid of those pjs and wrapper. Be creative with yourself and this can also be in the way you shave your pubic hair. Instead of just shaving it all off, try different styles. Say Mohawk this week, Punk the following, bald the next just anything to just make it Spicer.
Tip 3: Dress sexy, and Learn how to take care of yourself
Some people just think that because they are now married they don't have to make an effort in the way they look. They deceive themselves saying "He loves me just as I am" and forget that appearance matters a lot. You stay home instead of looking sexy, fashionable and stylish, your either all covered up like a deeper life or your tying wrapper or you just don't care. Learn to stay sexy all the time. It turns men up and I bet you they stare at you in excitement when your not looking so do not slip on your standards. Do not use the fact that you have kids or your a busy mum as an excuse, If you fail to put your priorities which is your family first then you make room for someone else or give him an excuse to look elsewhere.
Tip 4: Do Role play in bed and Dress up
You can dress up in bed and be someone else. This is very flirty and an easy way to live up all your secret fantasies without either of you cheating. You can dress up as a doctor and the other will be a patient. You can a professor and the other a student. You can be a sexy slutty secretary and the other a Boss. You can dress up as a naughty pupil while your cooking. All these little things help to arouse each other and builds excitement.
Tip 5: Surprise each other sexually
Surprise your partner into a sexual high now and then. You can surprise him by receiving him naked when he comes home, or tell him that you’re not wearing your panties under the short skirt when both of you are out having dinner. You can also surprise him by running a bath for him before he gets home and put petals and light scented candles and rub his back while he relaxes in the bath.
Tip 6: Sexy texts and calls.
Don’t wait for your partner to be around to seduce them. Send a few sexy photos in the middle of the day and tease your partner into wanting more when both of you get together at night. Pls be careful with the photos if the guy isn't your hubby and be sure you trust him enough before you do send the photos. But it is a nice turn on for anyone both guys and girls.
Tip 7: Add more foreplay.
One of the best ways to have great sex is by focusing on foreplay. Spend at least 15 more minutes on making each other horny before having sex. Both of you will end up having better sex. Caress and compliment each other’s bodies during those 15 minutes. Women take longer time to get aroused and this is where some men become selfish. You have to give a lot of time on getting her aroused and making sure she's feeling it before you actually start.
Tip 8: Think beyond the bed.
There are many sexy places to get naughty besides the bed. Think kitchen, corridor, couches, dinning table, bathroom, backyard, or a pool. Get innovative and the sexual rewards will be more pleasurable.
Tip 9: Make some noise.
Moaning in bed or whispering sexy nothings is a huge turn on that can’t be explained. Talk to each other in bed and you’ll arouse your partner in no time. There is nothing as boring as just being silent while having sex because the other person doesn't know if they are doing it well or if they are useless.
Tip 10: Make sex an impromptu, unpredictable act
As hard as it may seem, avoid planning ahead for sex or scheduling time for sex unless both of you are on very busy schedules. Surprise him and do it when he least expects. When ur watching a movie together, just give him a blow job unexpectedly.
Tip 11: Feel sexy.
Look good and start working out if you have to. The fact that you have kids isn't enough reason to be fat. Try as much as possible to keep trim and stay in shape. If he met you slim and married you and then you suddenly become fat, truth is that he wont like the New you. He can adjust but still try to cheat so don't make room for that. Pamper yourselves with fragrance. scrubs, sexy lingerie, invest in lingerie and get yourself a new hair cut, hair do and get your nails done and have some manicure and pedicure as well. Feel sexy, and you’ll look sexy.
Tip 12: Wear sexy outfits.
Wear revealing clothes, and every now and then, reveal something and make it seem like an accident. If you've got boobs, den flaunt them. If its ass, let them stick out, if its your lips make them luscious with that chanel lip gloss. Whatever you feel is your best asset and his weak point, Then use it to your advantage.
Tip 13: Use mirrors while having sex.
Use full length mirrors alongside your bed to heighten your sexual experience. You can have sex really close to the mirror if you want to recreate a foursome sexual fantasy. Watch yourself have sex. Try different positions while watching yourselves in the mirror and remember to moan.
Tip 14: Watch porn together.
Sometimes, watching porn can help both of you get into the mood and have a better time making love while watching another couple making out on the screen. Its like a bonding session for both of you as it arouses you both. This is a very big turn on and creates intimacy.
Tip 15: Create a Sexual setting.
Design your bedroom to revolve around sex. Use bright colors and make it cozy. Use fragrances and candles, and the perfect cushions to make lovemaking feel like a sexy luxury. Put on a soft music and design your bedroom like a love heaven.
Tip 16: Take off on a sexy vacation now and then.
Pick a vacation spot that both of you would like, be it a crowded sex resort or a beautiful, idyllic paradise island. And spend all vacation thinking of nothing but sexy thoughts. Take time away from your kids and have a romantic get away. Initiate it maybe once in 2weeks or as often as you can. Have time alone with each other and get to rediscover yourselves.
Tip 17: Fool around.
Don’t wait for some alone time to make out with each other. Be affectionate with each other all the time, and take affection to a whole new level now and then. Kiss your partner when they’re on the phone with someone else, or take their pants off and give them an oral in the middle of a phone call. while she's cooking, you can fondle her boobs and play with her downside. You can do silly things whenever and just enjoy each others company.
Tip 18: Sensual massages.
Get naked and give each other a sensual massage without focusing on sex. Pleasure each other and let the fingers linger a while in the tingling spots. As long as the focus is on helping your partner orgasm, it’ll make both of you feel good.
Tip 19: Body play.
Play with each other’s bodies instead of just having sex. Massage each other, fondle, careress and do lots of oral sex instead of just doing the main thing.
Tip 20: Get sexy things into your bed.
Bring in new excitement into your bed. Visit your adult store and bring in sex toys, lubes, and anything else that works to reinvigorate your senses. Add food and ice cream into bed, or cook together. Because food like chocolate can make lovemaking more romantic, and a few drinks can make both of you drunk and horny at the same time. Also try ice cube.
I believe that you will get a good result when you have tried all these tips. Let me know how you get on and if you have anymore you want to share pls feel free to leave your comments and share your tips.
I want to get people loving and enjoying their relationship by trying different ways to make it work.
Wish you all the best as you follow this tips and I believe you will get result.
Remember to THANK me later....
relationship doctor,this is superb...
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