Signs his CHEATING on YOU!!!

 

Cheating is a topic that most people dread and the word comes with a lot of grieve and anger. The thought of someone you love actually cheating on you is very painful because it crushes your pride, ego, self believe and makes you wonder if your not good enough.

Often times the ladies whom there bfs or husbands cheat on are usually very nice, beautiful and lovely ladies. This brings the question of why do men cheat?(I'll have that topic in my new post)

They have a beautiful partner and they cheat with ugly girls. They have a caring partner and they cheat with a girl who doesn't give 2 fucks about them. They have a lovely family but they risk it all and cheat. You have a stylish classy partner and you cheat with a Low life. Your partner is prayerful and puts you in prayers but you cheat with a girl who is carefree and doesn't even get enough time to pray for herself let alone you.

Something's in life are very complex to understand and remains a mystery. I know that while this behavior is a common trait in men but its practiced more and openly in different countries like u know Nigeria. Its become very common and almost normal for a guy to cheat that most girls don't even mind and feel its normal.

While I am strongly against it and feel its an abuse and totally disrespectful and let down to the other partner, others have their own insights to it. As I cant decide for you what to do when you find out your loved bf or husband is cheating on you, I can at least help by showing you the signs to let you know his joined the majority.

So I have compiled a lot of Tips that will make you Spot a Cheating Partner

#1: He begins to lie a lot and contradicts himself

#2: He puts a password on his phone and all his gadgets and doesn't let u have them

#3: He starts making excuses for not coming to see you

#4: All of a sudden he now prefers to hang out with his friends more (That's what he tells u)

#5: He comes home late and appears tired

#6: He suddenly doesn't get turned on by the same things you used to do

#7: He doesn't find your jokes and tease funny anymore

#8: He somewhat gets pissed or irritated at even the slightest thing you do

#9: He finds reasons to stay out late

#10: He doesn't call as often and blames it on not having credit

#11: He becomes sneaky and almost too not relaxed when with you

#12: He answers calls and calls out a male name and says I'll call you back later

#13: He receives a certain call and goes out to pick it

#14: He stays up late on the computer chatting with his "male friends" *yea right*

#15: He spends a lot of time on BB pinging with his male friends I suppose..*yawning*

#16: His not as romantic and caring as he used to be

#17: He suddenly starts picking annoying fights with you for no reason

#18: He takes his phone with him everywhere even to the bathroom

#19: He starts to complain that you either too fat, too needy, too this and too that.

#20: His sex drive becomes lower than normal and his not as passionate about it as before.

While this list is exhaustive, It is vital that once you start noticing changes, that you call him to order and find out what the problem is. Do not feel like you shouldn't and then you let it linger. Its better talked about early than leaving it till later when his affair must have gone deeper.

Knowing and understanding your partner is very important as it will help you detect early signs of cheating. While most men are experts women too can be experts in fishing them out.

I hope that these tips help you and when you have realized your worse fear, What you decide to do after that is totally up to you. Do not let him take your love for granted. Cheating is very demeaning and is like a stab in the heart.  

It looses trust, destroys years of hard work and puts a damper on the relationship. Men treat women with respect and do unto them what you would like to be done unto you. God is watching you all in a very big 100 inch 3D TV.