Most ladies will prefer to date a rich guy than a
broke one. The reason is because at least you will be sure that all your needs will be fully met.
You must also have some independence of your own and be educated enough just
for your own self esteem and just incase the bubble burst, you can quietly dust
your degree and get a job. But you also have to have some job of your own and earn your own money.
Now the question is how do you find one and when you have seen one, how do u get his attention? How does he notice you? How do you stand out from the rest? how can you get his attention without looking cheap?
Well relax because I, the Relationship Doctor have put together
some tips that you can use to get the money
bags attention without looking too desperate. Enjoy..
#1: Dress to kill
You have to be on trend with your clothes and make
sure that you are dressed sophisticated, classy and sexy but not
slutty. Appearance matters a lot and you only have one chance to make that first
impression so make it a good one. Dress a little different to the occasion that
way you stand out and be easily noticed and spotted.#2: Maintain eye contact with him
When you have spotted the man you want, then maintain eye contact with him. You can blink but do not break the eye contact until he does. It could be awkward at first but just practice and it will get easier. And remember to smile while his looking at you. Try it for awhile and see if he doesn’t approach you then his not interested or he could be shy so just move on and find someone else.
#3: Smile
Smile and appear as a fun person
It’s easier to approach someone who is smiling than one who is frowning. A ladies beauty glows more when she smiles because you looks inviting and you shine. It connotes openness, friendliness, and warmth. Of course , smiling will often get you the attention of men you are not interested in, so learn to reject with a smile, "Thank you, but I'm not interested". A rejection with attitude and no smile offends. you don't want to offend people, you just want them to go away. Be mindful that men often watch a woman for awhile before they will approach her. If you are seen to be rude, they may check you off their list even before you get on it.
So try not to frown because you don’t want to look 5times your age unless you have a Botox on then you can get away with it.
#4: Approach them and Introduce yourself
You know the saying that if something doesn't come to you, then you go for it. It only shows confident as well so pls don't see it as a big deal. Introduce yourself with a hand shake and that shouldn't be so hard. Some guys are shy so know when to take the first plunge.
So try not to frown because you don’t want to look 5times your age unless you have a Botox on then you can get away with it.
#5: Make Interesting Conversations
Often it can be about something completely weird like a magazine. Don't leave home for a social event without at least one item of interest in mind. Of course, if you are shy and don’t like being center stage, you can always get people to talk about themselves. For example, “What’s the best place you’ve ever been to?” or “What do you like to do when you’re not working? "If making conversation is difficult for you, learn how. Sound Intelligent and appear like a career woman that way they respect you too., Guys hate a lazy woman just like we hate lazy men!!
Often it can be about something completely weird like a magazine. Don't leave home for a social event without at least one item of interest in mind. Of course, if you are shy and don’t like being center stage, you can always get people to talk about themselves. For example, “What’s the best place you’ve ever been to?” or “What do you like to do when you’re not working? "If making conversation is difficult for you, learn how. Sound Intelligent and appear like a career woman that way they respect you too., Guys hate a lazy woman just like we hate lazy men!!
Almost all guys won’t refuse a dance with a beautiful lady. Let it be with a guy you will like to know better. That is also an opportunity to get talking and getting to know him more. After the dance just thank him and go back to your friends. If his interested, he will like to follow you so he can continue the conversation. But if you feel you have had enough and no longer interested just tell him politely.
#7: Hand Him Your Business Card if you have one
If you've met someone you want to see again, hand him your business card or personal card and walk away. Now its their turn to make the next move. If his interested, he will call. If not move on. Never give out your address.
#8: Know When to Leave
Don’t waste your time chasing men who don’t want you and don’t pursue men after your initial contact. You have signaled your interest. The chase is part of what keeps them interested. If you are too available, there is no challenge, and men lose their excitement. Remember that you want to make it easy for them to approach you, but you don’t want to be perceived as “easy”.
Don’t waste your time chasing men who don’t want you and don’t pursue men after your initial contact. You have signaled your interest. The chase is part of what keeps them interested. If you are too available, there is no challenge, and men lose their excitement. Remember that you want to make it easy for them to approach you, but you don’t want to be perceived as “easy”.
#9: Hang out in Spots for Rich people
You need to research on favorite spots where rich people come to chill and go with friends for an afternoon or evening hangout. Its always best to come latter when they are all seated so u can catch their attention as you walk in. Pick a nice spot where you can see everything happening so that way you can pick your potential target
#10: Make Friends with people that are connected to these rich people. Ask to accompany them to a visit to either deliver something or a private dinner/party Invitation. Remember to keep it classy and don't act desperate
Remember if your in a GROUP, you want to be the one that stands out by smiling, looking lovely from hair to make up and dress. Also know when to detach from the group to do your thing. I hope with these tricks, you will be very confident about what to do next time your in that wedding, party or flight and a rich dude is just across you.
Ladies bring your E- Game. And remember the Winner takes it all.
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