Thursday, 16 June 2016

Ways Men can help their Partners achieve Orgasm



Guys this is for you. A lot of guys are selfish when it comes to Love making without considering their partners. Most guys are more concerned about themselves and as soon as they ejaculate, they roll to the other side and snooze off without even asking the girl if she came or not. This is beyond selfish and totally unfair.

Most guys believe ejaculating was only originated for them and the lady is only there as a means to an end. These group of men are one of the many reasons a lot of women now resort to faking orgasm.
Well I have put together a List of things every guy should do in bed to help his partner achieve Orgasm

1. Have a heart to heart discussion about sex with your partner and find out what turns her on

2. Ask her where she likes to be touched and pleasured

3.Find out the sensitive areas on her body that makes her wet

4. Find out what her favourite positions are and try giving it to her that way

5. Sometimes bring her gifts or tell her something sweet before love making. That makes her wet faster,because she's excited and filled with all those happy hormones that gets the adrenaline pumping

6. NEVER  try having sex with a lady who is still dry so you don't bruise her. Most guys are so selfish and don't care if she's wet or not before doing their business. Ladies pls say No to this

7. Spend time on foreplay. Discover her body, play with her body and don't be in a hurry to put your thing in because trust me, there is absolutely nothing fun in being drilled for hours nonstop as if you're drilling for Gold or you lost something there. Play with her until she starts begging you to put it in

8. Fact is a lot of women hate being drilled for long. Most guys feel like its a show off to prove you have skills or whatever but trust me its not fun at all and can be a complete turn off

9. Spend time kissing and Fondling her body, paying attention to her favourite spots

10. Talk to her during sex and find out if she has cum and you can tell by her body language

11. Maintain eye contact with her from time to time so that way you can tell if she's enjoying it or she's simply getting bored with you

12. Men even after you have come, if she hasn't come still pleasure her in her favourite spot and avoid sleeping off like a log or backing her
Most guys even back the lady and start pressing their phones without even  having a chat with their girl to find out if she enjoyed it and also if she had an orgasm

13. Cuddle up your girl after sex and have some nice loving chats so you both can savour the whole experience


Guys its always good to understand your girls body and what gets her ticking in bed. Being selfish and only thinking that ejaculation is solely a mans thing is completely wrong. Have an open communication about this with her and look for ways to help her reach orgasm. 



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