When you’re in love or in a difficult relationship, it’s easy to overlook the glaring signs of a bad relationship. You may want to try and make it work, but is the damage done already?
‘Are you going to break up?’ is a brutal question to ask someone, especially if you don’t want to accept that you’ve failed in a bond called marriage, or that you couldn’t sort the differences in a relationship. People would come to you and tell you that your relationship is taking you nowhere, and they would pester you to walk away, but you may only end up hating those well wishers.
They may be right, however hard it is for you to accept it.
Here are a few signs that tells your relationship is beyond repair and most likely heading for a crash
#1: Lack of Happiness
When you’re happy, it shows. Likewise, when you’re sad, that shows too. You need to face the issues and make up your mind. Let’s face it, if you’re not happy in the relationship, big chances are, your partner too isn’t happy.
#2: Lack of Communication
Everyone has different communication styles, and you may just not be able to help each other communicate better. If the both of you don’t feel happy talking about your own problems with each other, but prefer talking it out with someone else, nothing can help you.
#3: Lack of Spending time together
When you guys aren't spending quality time together, then it can start to take its toll on the relationship. Long distance relationship can be draining, so both parties involved must know what they are getting into and make time to meet up and rekindle the spark in the relationship
#4:Trust Issues
If there is lack of trust in the relationship, then unless there is some type of middle ground, then chances are that the relationship won't survive
#5. Flirting with Exes
When one partner isn't over their ex and constantly flirting back and forth then its very disrespectful to the other person. U need to be completely healed before starting anything with anyone so you don't end up hurting yourself. This is becoming rampant and can be extremely annoying
#6: Cheating
It’s never easy to leave someone who meant so much to you but if the person is a chronic and unrepentant cheat, then the relationship is headed to the rock and its only a matter of time. Putting up with a cheat can be physically, emotionally and mentally draining and most times isn't worth the headache
#7: Third Parties Involvement
When other people start to have a say in your relationship then its already a disaster waiting to explode. So its always important that you settle your issues between yourselves
#8: Loss of Interest
When the spark isn't there anymore and this often happens. It could be that either someone new have caught their eyes or they jut don't find you appealing anymore. Whatever the reason, its very important that you discuss your feelings with your partner
#9: Lack of Love
People do fall out of Love and Love is the most important thing that keeps a relationship strong. So if the Love has faded, then the relationship is definitely not going to survive
Always remember that the break of a relationship isn't the end of your life. See it that a better replacement is out there for u and that person will stick with you forever. Life goes on so don't give up.
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