Is your man ready for marriage in the first place? Men and women think along the same lines when it comes to many things. But marriage is not one of them. Well at least in most cases. For most women, marriage comes naturally when they meet the man of their dreams. For most men, marriage comes naturally only when they feel like getting married.
This little difference in the way both sexes think can at times cause more than just a few misunderstandings.
This little difference in the way both sexes think can at times cause more than just a few misunderstandings.
Tips on how to get him to Propose to You
Here are a few subtle moves to help him see that a life with you as a wife can only make life a lot better and happier for him. You cant force him, but you can definitely help him see that your the perfect wife he could ask for with these tips.
#1. Act and be the perfect girlfriend and show him that you have all the qualities his looking for in a wife.
#2. Look after him and cater to his needs. Let him know he needs you in his life
#3. Introduce him to your family Members and get your close family members to call him every now and then and pretend they cant get you on phone and give him a message for you
#4. Take him to your close friends weddings and get so excited about it. Mention how you cant wait for it to be your turn and let him see your ready to settle down
#5. Put up pictures of friends that have being recently engaged on your Facebook wall, Instagram or Dp on BBM. Make sure he sees it and talk about the ring and use this opportunity to hint to him the type of ring you like. If his smart enough he will get it and won't forget
#6. Talk about the future and how many kids you would like to have. Find out what his plans for the future are. Talk about long term plans and that way you find out where his head is at the minute
#7. Get him to hang out with some of your married friends. Do a group hangout and let him see that marriage is fun and his really missing out
#8. Tell him straight up that you really want to get hitched but don't sound desperate. His your boyfriend after all and you guys should be able to communicate your feelings freely. So be brave
#9. Don't let your life revolve around him. That way he will know that you can live your life without him and still be happy. That way he will get to appreciate you a lot more
#10. Have your own friends and don't get too comfortable. You love him Ok but let him feel insecure at times and know that other guys desire and are interested in you
#11. Get close to his family members but not too close. Ask him about his mum and family most times and if he has called to check up on them. That way he will know your family oriented
Just Remember that Men learn from their friends and they have to be mentally ready before they can commit to marriage. So show him that Marriage with you won't be as scary as he thinks or sees others. Men usually wait for the right time but don't let him wait forever while your biological clock is ticking. So Use these tips and get him to propose to u. Help him realize how important you are in his life and to understand that commitment and marriage is only the next happy step in love.
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